i'm so glad that my kids are in school.
i really just needed that!
ok ok, all you homeschool moms don't freak out.
(remember i'm a home-schooled kid)
i get why you do what you do, too.
i'm not saying that being together doesn't appeal to me as well.
but, no matter what , i think we can all agree that having your kids all up in your deal all the time is craziness.
they are SO needy!
and really great, but tiring.
it seems like just a minute ago they all stayed with me all the time.
how did i do that?
seriously, just a break from each other makes me so much more energetic and happy to see them.
now i DO love the sleeping in, though.
i have to admit to missing that happy part of summer.
but now that school is finally here and i can occasionally hear my own thoughts in my head!
in summer i could barely even get a moment to think.
so because, in summer, my time had been so taken up by the extra people each day, i haven't written my own thoughts down lately...
which is ok, but i do still think those thoughts...they just stay in there.
sometimes i think staying in there might be best.
i mean there are a lot of people out there just saying their thoughts.
sometimes i think that's good and sometimes i wonder....
one thing that seems to be all over the place, lately, are rules
they are everywhere.
we have um here.
my kids have um at school.
people make um for each other.
we make um for ourselves.
God has um for us.
and many times they are very very good.
just think of all the good things that happen because of rules.
personal boundaries, brushed teeth, speed limits, no hitting, cleanliness, dinnertime, no stealing....
but there are also weird things that happen with rules.
because you can start to think that you can find the secret to life....
"if you just follow these rules, you will be safe and live a good life".
and things can go south because you can start to think that the actual rule and obeying it is more important than who made it and why.
there are a lot of people in the world with a lot of ideas that they like to share.
how to be and what to do with yourself.....
but really, for me the MOST important thing is to be in CONVERSATION with Jesus.
do you know his voice?
when i am doing something that isn't good for me, HE can tell me.
if i am saying something i shouldn't, i can FEEL Him there.
if i am looking at something that isn't good for me, I JUST know.
if i'm participating in a conversation that i shouldn't...i feel his presence.
so then, maybe i might make a rule for myself that i'm not going to do that.
the rule isn't the main thing here.
and very likely, it isn't appropriate to assume those rules on anyone else.
that rule is not the actual issue.
the MOST important part is LISTENING to Jesus, in my soul.
this may make you feel skeptical.
you may be worried about going to far to the whole "what is not ok for you is fine and different for me"
which gets shady, i know...
but. i really believe that all the interpretations and ideas of what a person who follows Jesus should or shouldn't do can really be a naughty distraction from what God's real ideas are.
As far as i know, His ideas are that he loved us so much the minute he created us that he could barely even see straight...you know like a new daddy.
and then we ruined that happiness and had our own ideas about how to run things.... now he has a plan in motion to rescue us through sending his son, Jesus (which he did).
we get rescued if we accept his idea and believe that he has it under control.
and that has nothing to do with what we are or aren't doing.
there are so many many times in God's story that he has used very questionable characters and situations for his good purposes.
people that did crazy stuff.
i wonder if they broke rules?
i wonder if those people would be shocking characters today.
or if they'd drink beer or alcohol.
or have perfect homes.
or wear velvet jumpsuits.
or yell at their kids.
or use bad language.
or read trashy magazines or romance novels.
or watch in-appropriate tv or movies.
or have plastic surgery.
or act annoyingly perfect.
or wear low cut tops.
i think there are differing ideas about all these subjects and i think that God cares about the people that are doing or not doing these things and so, in a round about way, he MAY even care about the actual activities.
but i think he doesn't care as much as we do about this stuff.
HE cares about loving us.
LOVE is his idea.
so. for me, it makes me think.
i know i have always been someone who has ideas and strong beliefs for myself.
i have had seasons of life when i've been known for speaking my mind and standing for what i believed was right.
i have had seasons of life where i think i've held too tightly to my idea of how things should be and what life aught to look like.
and i feel like right now, i am needing to step back and really ask myself where my ideas come from.
are the things i tell the world i think lining up with God's main idea?
i mean his BIG idea about getting us kids back?
not the secondary ideas about how to most healthily live and how to keep ourselves out of trouble....
i mean those are good.
but they mean nothing without the main thing.
love is HIS BIG IDEA
so, i thought i'd share that with you.
i have ideas.
i have things i think about what we, as people, are looking at and watching and doing and reading and giving to and thinking about and saying...
and sometimes i wonder when to stand up and talk about those beliefs.
i'm just deciding to be very careful with what stand to take.
i am just trying to remember that if you want to know what God thinks about things, you should ask HIM (not read blogs).
the one stand i'm very sure about is love.
i'm gonna stand for that.
not the fake kind.
the real kind.
the kind that is willing to risk anything.
the kind that is willing to give ideas up.
the kind that is willing to look like an idiot.
and, honestly, the only way i can really love someone else is to let God do it through me.
so i'm back to listening to Him.
oh man, hope you're all still with me :)
all you need is love,
love is all you need.